
Today is not suppose to be a sad day. It should be a happy day. I should be happy. Then why is this dark cloud hanging over me when it is so gorgeous and sunny outside? You see, a friend of mine who has been dreaming of leaving his job to travel the world, for the second time, is finally leaving today. He will be travelling for at least a year...or whenever he runs out of money. He has been talking about this for ages. It started when I met him about 11 ½ years ago where I worked before I ventured into my own adventure and started my own business. Since then, it was always in his future. I just never imagine, nor did he, that this day has finally arrived. Today...or rather tomorrow, he will be arriving
RIO DE JANEIRO, just in time for the
carnival. Thai-Binh, you're going to make it this time! YAY!
Thai-Binh has been a man in my life the longest...except for dad and my dear husband, of course. We have gone through amazing years. Our friendship is filled with so many laughs. More laughs than tears! He gets me. I get him. He tolerates me. I *sometimes* tolerate him (hehe). We used to go to photography classes and spent many weekends in the darkroom creating "art" as we wanted to think of them. Shopping was just fun with him. He would never, and I mean NEVER, let me look bad. And when I did, he would say "what's going on here" pointing up and down to my outfit. "uh uh...NO!" and sent me back to change. It was just easy to spend a day with him mucking around.
Best words to describe Thai-Binh are: unselfish, loyal and full of life. All qualities of a BFF. No matter what happens, an argument, disagreement, whatever, we reset to our normal. It really should be that easy.
So today, tomorrow, next week, next month, I don't know for how long, I will miss him. I will miss him like crazy! I know he's coming back but it just seems so far away. Days of just calling him up to meet for coffee, dinner, movies, etc will have to wait. I don't know if I can get used to that even for just awhile. I am being a baby, I know. BUT I guarantee I'll always be thinking of my *high-maintenance* BFF. I just have to think that maybe someday, hopefully in a few months, we will get to visit him wherever he may be in his travels. Argentina, we are hoping! Get a nice place, Thai-Binh, 'cause we're coming!
So wipe off the tears..again. Geez, he's just an email, facebook or
blog away. Thai-Binh, you better be posting on your blog or I'll start worrying!

Stay happy and stay safe.
BOM DIA RIO, my friend...and see you later!
Felicidade enfim verão sem fim...Happiness at last endless summer